Gender and Sexual hypocrisy

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Ok ,I have alot to say and it isn't going to be pleasent or politically correct, but what the hell.
Has anyone ever noticed that in recent news reports concerning student-teacher sex scandels that if the teacher in question is female (particuarly an attractive female with a great body) and the student is a male we (the general public) are less likely to demonize or give out harsh punishments to the teacher and might even start sympathizing with her and think that it maybe that she's just emotionally unbalenced, and that the boy in question is either a complete dumbass for ratting out his teacher and that he should have kept his mouth shut or that most middle aged men start bad mouthing the boy in question. They go off on some rant about how they wish they'd had a hot female teacher to sleep around with and brag about how they'd never blab about the experience to anyone because it would wreck their shot at getting more sex from that teacher (yeah, right guys keep telling yourselves that). But when it's a male teacher caught having sex with a female student suddenly our attitudes do a complete one eighty and we don't even want to hear the reasons why the male teacher did what he did.It's "Lets beat this pervert's ass down!" or "Sick bastards like him should have their nuts chopped off" or "How could he molest an innocent little girl like that?" and concerning the girl who had sex with said older man she is either seen as a victim or a slut who ruined a guy's life and yet when she tries to explain her side nobody is willing to calm down long enough to listen without getting hystrical and start rambling inchoherently and thinking there's noway that she could have liked it and blah,blah,blah....

Now that to me seem mighty fucked up right there.We all know that while we say that we as a "civilized' country say that teachers doing this sort of thing is wrong yet what we really mean is when a male teacher sleeps around with a boy or girls and not when it comes to female teachers.As it stands we have this (false) belife that when a female teacher has sex with a male student it isn't as harmful as men who have sex with underaged girls. The provading myth about women being always loving,kind,understanding,gentle,nuturing etc. has clouded the cold hard fact that women like men can be manipulative,violent,seanky,lying,passive-agressive,judemental,unresponsive, and all around perverse!

If your going to be a teacher the main thing is:Don't have sex with the kids your teaching! it's an abuse of your authority and it is damaging in more ways then you can comprehend and in more ways then i'm going to explain because any rational adult should know what i'm getting at.

And while it's hard to face up to it girls can and do have sex and think about sex just as much as boys do but do to the assumtion over thousands and thousands of years it's the norm to belive that "Good" girls don't ever think of sex and are totally pure and at the mercy of oversexed males and that they need to be watched over until they can find "Good husbands" to submit to them and that if a girl or woman even thinks of anything sexual then it's deemed that she's a "Whore" or a "Bad" person who should be isolated,taughted,riddiculed, and victimized and treated like dirt.While males are even expected to have sex and it's just brushed off as "normal behavior" and even when a female points out the double standards of the way things are most "Normal" people just either: cut her off in mid sentense,look at her as if she has recently grown three heads,and pretend she never said anything.

I find this behavior disturbing and what makes it even more so is that your avgerage person just accepts this without so much as a thought to the insanity of it all.

It makes me wonder if sex is worth it or trying to disspell gender sterotypes in an attempt to get folks get their heads out of their asses but being humans I suppose means just living with the hyopcrisy around you and bullshitting your self to belive living with this obvious self descructiveness is healthy.Oh well see next time